Krista, in response to your comments:
Well, it is like this.
Wifey works pretty hard during the day, and again after she gets home from work, she just does not like to sit still (it comes from her job training).
So, by the time bedtime rolls around, which is usually 9:30 - 10:00 PM, she is beat, and has a hard time to stay awake and read for a few minutes while trying to unwind from the days activities before turning in, so she has not the energy for sex, intimate, masturbation or any other form of oral sex.
Hey, don't get me wrong, I love intimate sex just as much as the next guy or gal, but you can not force sex on anybody to do it whether they are wife, girlfriend or the hooker you picked up on the street corner(if you are into that kind of thing).
So, it is usually me that will initiate the foreplay, but I soon get the hint, verbally or subtly that she is not into anything more than me rubbing her crotch area or slipping my fingers in between her lips in an attempt to please or excite her before she falls asleep from the soft caresses that I am giving her crotch area.
She loves it when I rub her crotch or pull on her pubic hair, as it relaxes her and puts her to sleep.
It might be odd, but that is the way she works.
Intimate sex is not the end all of things or the most important thing in my life, as I can masturbate almost any time I want instead of having intimate sex to release my sexual urges.
Heck, even the wife enjoys watching me masturbate from time to time.
She will not hesitate to ask for me to do it in front of her, as she has asked me several times before in the past, and it is a turn on to do it in front of another person, so something you and your boy friend can try sometime and let me know how it went.
You have nothing to lose, and as I say, it is a great turn on for both of you, and you get to share the most intimate and private things you can do to your body while being watched by your lover.
Hey, you might both do it in front of each oterh on a regular basis as a change of diet from routine sex.
So, age is not a factor, and if I had it my way, I would have intimate sex three or four times a week if the wife was into it.
But the last time we had intimate sex, well....., that was a very long time ago, and I can’t recall off hand when it was.
When we mutually masturbate, it is a pleasurable experience for both of us, but that is something that does not take place all that often, much to my chagrin.
But hey, that is the way the ball bounces.
It is either get myself a girlfriend that is into a lot of intimate or oral sex, or masturbate and I have chosen to do the latter.
Having a girlfriend has both advantages and disadvantages, as you have read in the past with “Red” when we had out little tumultuous fling way back when.
There is no way on gods green earth that I want that to happen again, life is way to short for that kind of crap.
Masturbating for me is practicing the safest sex there possibly is, and it is a choice that I made and try to adhere to.
Hope that this answers your question.
Onan
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